Week 4:
Psalm 51:3 For I know my transgressions, and my sin is always before me.
I like the KJV translation of this
verse: For I acknowledge my
transgressions: And my sin is ever
before me.
I have been reading of late some of the comments, news articles, blogs,
etc., of those who have a deep dislike for Christians, Christianity, and what
they call the hypocrisy of the Church.
One thing that has really stood out for me is the misuse of the word
“hypocrisy”. I always understood the
definition of
hypocrisy to be not living or acting in the way you profess to be long
term. Remember, long term, we will come
back to that. I read recently a popular
Facebook share that says, “Not going to church because of ‘hypocrites’ is like
not going to the gym because of ‘out of shape people’.” At first I found that funny. Upon further thought, this type of statement
even though true, may not help me much when trying to reach the faultfinder.

I have observed two things around this use of the word “hypocrisy”. First, the faultfinders of Christianity take
any inconsistency amongst Christians and label that as hypocrisy. Now, mind you, we have hypocrites in our
churches; no doubt…but, not to the extent of the accusations. Secondly, it appears that anything that
Christians quote from the Bible that goes against what the faultfinders take
part in their lifestyle warrants their accusations. They just do not want to be told they are
living an immoral life. Again, there are
those in our churches who point out the sin to the “outsider” while living a
life of indulging in similar, if not the same, sin. Either way, the use of the word to me is a
loose definition.
So what are the faultfinders observing?
Two things come up for me:
Integrity and missing the mark (which is how many scholars define
sin). Again, I realize that we all have
a level of hypocrisy in our lives (and if you looked into the lives of the
faultfinders, then you would find it in their lives as well). And there are levels of hypocrisy in our
churches. However, when looking into the
lives of most Christians, long term (there it is), there is little hypocrisy
and more issues around integrity and unwanted sin.
Integrity
is basically walking your talk.
The Crucible Project looks deep
into integrity and helps us as men work on aligning our inside with our
outside. Our actions should match our
emotions. When we keep agreements, we are
in integrity. When we make choices, they
should line up with how we profess to live.
So, in many cases, what is being called hypocrisy is really an issue of
integrity. Many times I am out of
integrity regarding my walk with Christ.
This does not make me a hypocrite.
Over the long term, I am in integrity more than I am out of
integrity. I would argue that this is
the case for most Christians.
Missing the mark is how many describe sin.
God has a standard. He set laws
in motion for humankind to live by. I
don’t think God created His laws just for authority sake (even though He could
if He wants, He’s God). God create us, He knows us; He knows what is
best for us and our souls. That is why
His laws are in place. When we violate
one of God’s laws, we are missing the mark.
When I disobey, I am missing the mark.
The target is holiness and perfection.
When I come up short, I have missed the mark. When shooting at a target, several things can
come into play to miss the bull’s eye. I
can be distracted, I can flinch, my sights can be off (I didn’t set them right
to begin with), I can pull instead of squeeze the trigger, I don’t take into
account the wind, etc. Living life in
the kingdom is like this. Replace the shooting
analogy with living in holiness. Can you
see the factors that make you miss the mark?
Unfortunately, the faultfinders see us miss the mark and label the miss
as hypocrisy.

The sad part is that when the faultfinder sees what he/she perceives as hypocrisy,
he/she is done with the Christian, the person, or the group. So, when you or I run into a faultfinder, we
are labelled before we ever open our mouths.
Usually, in this case, it is more about the faultfinder than it is about
us. If we are living the “long term”
within how we profess we are, then we may have made a mistake, but we are not
hypocrites.
How do I live life around the faultfinder?
First, I cannot become defensive.
This is most difficult for me. I
want to defend myself and my faith which I follow. However, I really need to listen to the
faultfinder. This does not mean I have
to agree with him/her, just listen. It
also does not mean that his/her faultfinding is about me. I need to own what is true about me and work
on being better in that area or blind spot.
The rest can fall back on the faultfinder from which it has been
projected onto me. All the while, I need
to seek to understand where the faultfinder was wounded by the
Christian/church-attender.
Secondly, as I made note of throughout
Barriers
to Truth, I must show love. I
will not move the faultfinder any closer to Jesus without a loving
relationship. I need to love him/her
where he/she is in life. I must have a
compassion and empathy for his her wound around Christian/moral people. He/she has encountered some sense of
self-righteousness and possibly some hypocrisy in his/her past. To draw them closer, I must love.
Thirdly, and possibly most important, I must show them a different person
than the ones he/she have encountered before.
I must live the above verse:
Admit my transgressions, keep my sin in front of me, out in the light
where it has no power over me. Own my
shortcomings instead hiding behind my condescending church mask. Live as a redeemed man who owes Christ my
life for the price He paid for me. This
does not mean I have to agree with the faultfinder. I just live what I profess to be and love
like Jesus loved and recognize I deserve judgment. Then I can share the good news that Jesus
redeems those who choose Him.
I can choose to battle and argue and continue to push away; or I can choose
to create loving relationships and let The Holy Spirit guide me. This does not mean I do not stand up for my
beliefs. I just don’t always have to
swing the sword. I can stand on the truth and
love like I’ve never loved before.
Questions/challenges:
1.
What has been your definition of hypocrisy?
2.
Who did Jesus warn the most about hypocrisy?
3.
What were the signs of hypocrisy in those who Jesus
warned?
4.
Explain in your own words the difference between
hypocrisy, integrity, and missing the mark.
5.
Where has your lack of integrity appeared like
hypocrisy?
6.
How have you handled the faultfinders in the past?
7.
This week, reflect on question #6. What changes can you make moving forward from
where you are now?
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